Guy Farmer - Poet and Joke Writer
There is nobody on the planet, neither those whom we see as the oppressed nor those whom we see as the oppressor, who doesn’t have what it takes to wake up. We all need support and encouragement to be aware of what we think, what we say, and what we do. Notice your opinions. If you find yourself becoming aggressive about your opinions, notice that. If you find yourself being nonaggressive, notice that. Cultivating a mind that does not grasp at right and wrong, you will find a fresh state of being. The ultimate cessation of suffering comes from that. Finally, never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others. Wholeheartedly do what it takes to awaken your clear-seeing intelligence, but one day at a time, one moment at a time. If we live that way, we will benefit this earth.
When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chödrön, page 113 (via dharmasimulation)
Perhaps the most important thing we bring to another person is the silence in us, not the sort of silence that is filled with unspoken criticism or hard withdrawal. The sort of silence that is a place of refuge, of rest, of acceptance of someone as they are. We are all hungry for this other silence. It is hard to find. In its presence we can remember something beyond the moment, a strength on which to build a life. Silence is a place of great power and healing .
Rachel Naomi Remen (via unconditionedconsciousness)

vacataire:

when you were little you used to mess with people when you thought that it would benefit you, now you just do it because you can

I write about you all the time, I said aloud.
Every time I say “I,” it refers to you.
Louise Glück, from “Visitors From Abroad,” in Poetry (Vol. CCIII, No. 3, December 2013)